We don’t just wanna fuck you and leave.
a lot of times we will like you until we find out how you really are and only aspire to try to have sex due to the lack of interest we have in you that’s now only a physical one. How you are physically is what brings us to even want to entertain you. How you are as a person and what you offer to us mentally & spiritually will definitely be what keeps us around. This only allows us to be more of ourselves and distracts us from what our dick wants. If you can only keep our attention in a physical manner…then that’s all that will be attended to.
We don’t just want the easy females that come our way.
The problem with this is that the women that we tend to be interested in would rather be difficult and hard to embrace because they want to be chased. They want you to put way more effort in just getting at them than they deserve (well…at least to a guy’s mindset seeing as that he doesn’t know this woman very well). So when they are girls who are willing to embrace us without us putting much effort into it…we’re more susceptible to entertaining them compared to the unneeded difficulty that comes with the woman that we would naturally be attracted to.
We don’t hide how we feel.
We’re just more reserved with allowing our feelings to be involved until we’re completely comfortable in a relationship. Women tend to allow their emotions to control their decisions in a personal relationship way sooner than men do (in most normal cases lol). As a man, we’re WAY more sensitive once our feelings and emotions get involved in a relationship…so we’re more hesitant to be that way with anybody. If you want him to reveals these feelings to you…you have to become a comfort zone for him and when he’s good and complacent with his lady friend then along with those feelings will come truths, thoughts and expressions.
We Want Relationships Too!
We just won’t ever say that. because that shit is gay. and plus we don’t want it with just anybody to be comfortable being in a relationship. It has to be a genuine, matured and comforting bond with a woman that’s irreplaceable and worth investing in. We’re more logical with relationships and dating so it has to make sense to us to do before we do it. Most guys are even comfortable with being single and playing the role of a single guy until he comes across the type of woman he really feels like he could be with. We want to be happy with one woman and share a special bond with her and all that gay shit. It just has to be the woman best suited for us. and we have to KNOW that.
but u don’t have to believe me. I’m just a DJ.